A Repost!

Life Happens

I have been thinking about my blog. It’s getting boring to me; I keep repeating the same things over and over.

One blogger I followed and had a wonderful email relationship with recently took down Her blog and just disappeared, this  has me wondering about a lot of things. Did she get how I feel and just gave up?

I started out wanting other Women to know about the advantages of a Femdom marriage but seemed to have shifted to porn images of us and only the sexual part of our marriage.

It became almost intoxicating showing you pictures of my husband/sub serving me one way or another, it made me feel very superior. Not over you but over my husband and the male sex in general

The point is a Femdom Marriage is not only about sex, it’s a day to day life. My actual sexual activity is a very minimal part of it, but that is what’s focused on here. It is about Women and the complete power they have over men if they choose to use it.

I want women to know we are normal in all other aspects of our lives; we have kids, grand kids, friends, cars, trucks, travel, etc.

He works, fixes thinks, nothing he can not do it seems, has fun, we have fun, we laugh, he does other things but service me sexually and fulfill all his household sub duties. He is needed buy others, not just me; I am needed by others not just by him.

I guess one of the reasons it works for us is both of us have higher than normal sexual desire. This energy keeps us going thru thick and thin. I think also being totally multi-orgasmic makes it easy for me to  Dominate him. Also on that note, I trust him entirely for protection, emotional security, compassion, financial security, no matter what I demand he does, anything.

I have concluded that really there are very few people in this life style. Most seem to be men that think they want a wife like me or woman like me.

I think that after they cum they would lose the desire to serve me or another Women.

A submissive male is very rare, I feel I am very fortunate to have a truly submissive husband, any and all things I desire he selflessly provides. I think all men are driven by their penis, once they orgasm their personalities change until they want to cum again. A true male sub does not change his desire to serve you at all once he cums. He will serve your needs 24/7 with or without an orgasm.

I know now my dream of helping other Woman obtain this wonderful life was just that, a dream. This is to bad.

I will always be a FemDom wife, he will always be my submissive husband and serve me.

D

FemDom Wife

21 thoughts on “Why Femdom?

  1. I hope you don’t give this up. I enjoy everything you write. There are very few honest femdom sites out there. Just write how you feel. It doesn’t have to be about new events.

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  2. I can definitely understand why you might feel uninspired at times especially after kindly sharing so much of your life. But please do not take down your blog. It is truly an inspiration to guys like me who are want to start or are developing a femdom relationship such as as my wife and I are doing. The attitude you share and the advice you give is truly helpful. Of course we all have a life of family and routines but they are different in your marriage because of you being in charge. And sure for some it’s just for sexual rocks off stuff but for me it gives an idea of what might be, even though my wife might not to do everything the same as you. Submissive guys are usually the ones trying to inspire our wives and support their dominance. Until blogs by pioneers like you came along I didn’t have a clue how a femdom relationship worked, what I should do to make it better and how really great it can be. So thanks and even if you don’t post very often please leave the chapters of your life that you’ve shared available. There will be others like me who might luck onto them and have their eyes opened to a how really good femdom marriage can be. Thanks…..

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      1. Don’t give up.. We too live a life life like yours but it is blogs like yours that only strengthen the community and get more couples into the lifestyle. I type this only after giving my wife a pedicure and foot massage. It’s like second nature to me and us now

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  3. Dear Dorinda,
    It would be a tragedy for all of us if you were to halt publication. That said, you really have to do what makes sense in your life.

    You have the best site/blog on Femdom because it is real, practical and focused on the relationship.

    Do I love the sex content and the great pics? Of course I do! BUT, you could write on anything and I will read it.

    You are right that there are very few real submissive men. They exist, but they are outnumbered by the fetish seekers. Still, we appreciate that you found one such unicorn and it means others can as well…though the search is usually long and frustrating.

    I don’t think you know how much value people find in your blog and how important it is.

    Thank you so much for publishing it and I hope you can continue. I appreciate every post.

    Peace in this season of family and friends.

    Your fan,
    TomBow

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  4. Hi Dorinda.

    Could you elaborate on how a “peeing session” with your friends work? Do you allow your husband breaks, and how exactly do you pee on him? Do you say any humiliating things while doing it?

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  5. My dear Dorinda! I have always enjoyed your blog and would miss it if you go. I do think you are an inspiration to women just thinking about such a relationship. I do think there are more dominant women and submissive men around than you think, but we are likely in the minority.
    Please don’t disappear into the ether! Your voice is still needed!

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  6. I agree, a lot of men lose their desire to serve after they cum. After I cum I will continue to serve my wife but I do get lazy and my wife can tell, Now I am only allowed a couple of ruined orgasms a month, since she doesn’t notice any down time. She said that she may cut me off completely, but I doubt it.
    Please continue your wonderful blog.

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    1. Why give up. There is so much of an ocean of options out there. You can try practically a tonne of other ideas if you are getting bored. I read on Ms Scarletts blog that never rule out the hard limits that was said at the start you would never do because you might find your appetite changing towards it. Never give up. Mix it up a little first and see if that awakens your heart

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  7. Dorinda, I’m a submissive male without a partner at this time. I yearn for the time when I can commit myself to a Mistress, day in and day out, orgasm or no. It has always been difficult to find a compatible partner that understands and enjoys the FemDom lifestyle. Reading your blog has been a God send for all males in a similar situation.

    In my last, and only, FemDom relationship, my partner was just beginning to understand her power when she decided to return to a vanilla relationship. One night before bed I was told to please her orally, which I did two or three times. Then she wanted me inside of her, so we did that until she’d had one or two more orgasms. Every time before this when we’d had sex, she had allowed me to cum. And I expected to cum that evening. But after having her fill of orgasms, she was tired and wanted to sleep. So she place her fingers on my chest and said simple “Go to sleep”. I laid there next top her for half an hour or more, grinding my teeth and listening to her breathing as she slept. I’d never been more sexually frustrated, and never been more turned on, and I don’t think I ever loved her more than I did in that moment. She had used the power that she had over me. the power that I wanted her to have over me, in an entirely self-serving way, and I loved her for it. And I don’t think I’d ever felt more truly myself than in that moment. She had allowed me to be who I truly am, and I’ll be forever grateful to her for that.

    An awful lot of women would not understand at all what I’ve just written. But you do. You get it and you live it. And your blog is like an oasis in the desert for us truly subservient men. Certainly the photos you publish are appreciated by us. I love viewing any part of your body and fantasizing the I’m in your husband’s place. But I check your blog almost daily for new posts from you and it’s not just the photos. It’s the refreshing and reassuring realization that I’m not alone out here.

    Thank you for all that you’ve done before. I hope you’ll continue to post, for as long as the idea is pleasing to you.

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  8. Hi Dorinda
    Please don’t underestimate the importance of your blog. You and your husband are the Real Deal, a genuine Female-led relationship that inspires others to keep searching for that special Domme or sub to share a life with.

    Please don’t get discouraged. We read your blog for much more than the naughty pics.

    Perhaps you can let your husband post some thoughts on the relationship, from his perspective?

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  9. You can post more about your day to day life, it will be good to read that as well, it doesn’t have to be sexual to be interesting, I like reading your posts about anything.

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  10. Hello,

    I want to start by saying i have been a long time lurker on your blog , and enjoied almost all of your posts with a few excemptions. You are absolutly right when you say that most of us men are searching for gratification and pribably are only a few women that read your blog for the intended purpose. I am married to a very domminating woman and i can say that i follow her lead with everything, just to say a few examples : i prepare breakfast coffe and tea in the morning , if the nanny of a grandparent is late or our baby wakes up earlier , i tend to her and my wife sleeps, in the evening is the same , i stay with the child and prepare the meals , tea etc. A lot of decisions regarding more complex things like changing furniture , buying cars etc , are taken by my wife . So i can say that yeah i live in a FLR. As for our sex life is pretty vanilla , spiked with some fantisies during sex but nothing more than that, especially nothing with what i have seen here like chastity , pee drinking etc. My point is a lot of people actually live in a FLR but they don t have either the time to find a name for it.

    Have some nice holidays and good health, and i hope i can read more of your posts.

    Mario

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