If you have been following me for any length of time you would know that the reason I started my blog was to inform Woman, especially wives in committed marriages of the relationship gains of changing your marriage to a Femdom one.

I have mentioned the benefits are more then you could have ever imagined, for me it was a major life changer. It has given me a major turnaround in my sex drive (maybe 30% to 85% of my thoughts and desires) as well as responsibility’s to freedom to a much stronger bond with my long term husband, etc.

I was reading another Femdom wives blog Ms Scarlet, She is more into punishment and pain, I am more into forceful watersports and his self-semen consumption, but we both have the same gain as wives and our place in our relationships.

Here is in a nutshell, why Femdoming your husband and making him your submissive is so valuable, please read it here and visit her blog, it is full of lots of good insight in a Femdom relationship.

Here is Her post:

So you want more and better orgasms and a faithful partner? Get a submissive!

So many articles appear on increasing the number and intensity of women’s orgasms and others on faithfulness of partners, but never is mentioned the following GUARANTEED strategy. Before continuing, it is true to say that, for a large part of society, this is taboo, just like discussing gay sex was fifty years ago.

There are many, many true submissives in our population. (Why do you think there are so very many wealthy, professional dominatrix?) These male and female true submissives usually discover they are sexually submissive before they reach puberty. They are only truly content if they are dominated by another person, at least in the bedroom. Truly dominated; not just playing a game. True submissives do come from any upbringing, often loving and nurturing homes; their submissiveness is not the result of abuse during their early lives. 

In order to feel truly dominated, things must happen to them they would prefer did not. They might be coerced to take responsibility for tedious chores, or be spanked just that bit longer and harder than they believe they can cope with, or humiliated, perhaps a male having to wear pink panties, (as a starter). Humiliated just that bit more intensely than they believe they can cope with.  

Having to do the tedious chores, (another benefit), or be spanked or humiliated – a little more than they believe ‘they can cope with’, proves to them that it is not simply a domination game. This other person has total control and is proving this domination and control is REAL. It could possibly be due to a parasite carried by cats! Google Toxoplasma gondii. Go figure!

What has this to do with my orgasms you ask! Well I am a dominant  woman and I have done some research and found that power truly is a MASSIVE aphrodisiac. Women who have adopted a life of, or sessions of, real power over their sexual partner ALWAYS move from none or average orgasms, to numbers and intensities previously only dreamed of. ALWAYS! Many like me, having perhaps a dozen HUGE orgasms during a few hours of dominance. Aching, shaky legs from those orgasms!

And the relationship intensity and intimacy and loyalty is as strong as can be. When those things the submissive do not enjoy are all over, they adore their dominant and sleep the most contented sleep, knowing they are helplessly in the power of another.

In addition, the sex life does not fade away over the years. It remains as intense as it ever was; decade after decade after decade.

I can hear those judgmental do-gooders reading this, screaming, ‘These true submissives need help and therapy. They need rescuing and converting’. Well this is what was shamefully said about gay people not so long ago! So if you are screaming that; SHAME ON YOU! I can assure you that true submissives do not want to change. They adore the intensity of feelings and relationships they experience when their submissive needs are met.

If you really want to be a virtuous, go and find a true submissive and begin a dominant relationship with them. Then you will be bringing fulfilment to their otherwise unfulfilled lives. And bringing fulfilment to you too! Best estimates suggest the number of discontented, unfulfilled male and female submissives among us currently outnumber female dominants by about one hundred to one. And honestly, anyone can become a dominant and get hooked on, and benefit from, that aphrodisiac power.

As long as you are able to raise a middle digit to conservative societal values, (which remember only 50 years ago condemned gay people to prison and worse), then you can become a dominant; and become an orgasm Queen into the bargain!

But there is a second massive benefit from finding a true submissive and beginning a dominant relationship with them. FAITHFULNESS.

So many vanilla men seek out a ‘younger model’ during their relationships. A prettier face, a firmer body; whatever. And of course this is compounded by the fact that we do all get older. We may well all get a little less attractive than we once were.

Well for vanilla women this can be a worrying threat. But for dominant women it really is an irrelevance. In fact the shoe is on the other foot. True submissives know how many of them there are and how rare dominant women are.

Here Is Her Blog Post

https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/79844/posts/2321340285

Not Me but you get the idea, unlimited satisfaction!

7 thoughts on “The benefits of a Femdom marriage: A post from Mistress Scarlet’s Blog

  1. Yep, rings true to me, these Ladies know what they are talking about.
    I like the pic; that’s the position (with variants…) in which I find myself most of the time when pleasuring my Wife. And I just love it, sometimes I nearly blow my load from the excitement when She cums, with no stimulation of the penis …

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