I was thinking of you men out there reading my blog.

My last post was about me wanting to orgasm and wanting it now. I think about the double standard a FLR dictates in so many ways, but for today’s thought specifically about your cumming or you need to orgasm and not getting that need met like I get to do.

I believe most men that are a true submissive are like my husband in that he wants to be rock hard and completely excited, excited to the point of dripping pre-cum, and balls tightly up inside waiting to release but held right there, not wanting to orgasm, wanting to stay in this feeling as long as possible. To continue to be edged all day if possible, opposite of me; as soon as I get the urge I use him to fulfill my orgasmic need and desire. I can orgasm many times, for him, only two or three times max a day. He does not get to do this that often, just saying his body could if allowed.

How many of you want to cum as soon as you can?

Or am I right that many of you do not want to cum at all, at least not for a long while? You want to stay hard and horny.

Now I’ll bet there are some of you that read Femdom stories and look at pictures thinking you would enjoy a relationship with someone like me, while you masturbate and when you release you are done and close the page or picture. For you guys I challenge you to cum in your own mouth or in your hand and clean it up, lick up your entire load.

For a known submissive male this is no problem, you have already been trained to do this, this is how you want to bee’s, can get started.

E-mail me a picture of you doing this as a reward for yourself taking the next step. https://wordpress.com/block-editor/page/almostfemdomwife.com I will respond then you can include pictures. This just prevents spammers from obtaining my email, thank you for understanding..

If you do not have a Dom woman in your life, read my entire blog to see how one thinks and ticks.

D

Like this, taste your semen for me!

38 thoughts on “How many of you want to cum as soon as you can?

  1. I have a question, not a male submissive but I do question “For a known submissive male this is no problem, you have already been trained to do this”. Are you implying that unless someone can do this act they are less submissive?
    While I would love my submissive to eat his own cum for me, the gag reflex and disgust reaction can be quite strong. I’d rather not have him vomiting it back up again. Does that make him any less submissive in his emotions to me if he truly cannot eat his own cum? Due to the texture and the disgust reaction?
    I think that as he has tried and would still try shows me that he is no less worthy of being called submissive than someone who can actually eat their own cum.

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    1. Hi Mistress:
      Thank you for reading my blog and commenting on it.
      Well, submission is in the eye of the beholder. It looks like in your case the answer is no, you have a submissive male and he does not have to consume his semen for you. There are many ways a male can submit to his Dom.
      In my case he must consume his mess out of pure desire to want to satisfy my need and requirement. When I first started this was one of the many things I did a lot of research on. The fact that most males lose all interest once spent and that they have a real major issue with swallowing semen. Maybe the gag reflex or taste whatever. I went to work on this issue with my husband first and foremost. I posted about the early days on my blog. One thing I did was make him cum with me completely controlling the situation into a rubber, I would remove it and pour it into his mouth until he would voluntarily do it for me. After a few weeks he has cleaned every drop every time he cums.
      Next was forced pee drinking, taking a strap-on, but those are other stories.
      We all dominate our man a little differently. I think most importantly is we have found men willing to support all our needs, to be able to lead and dictate what they do for us.
      D

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  2. I have certainly discovered the joy of being kept in an aroused state for prolonged periods of time. My wife will get me right to the edge and ask if want to come. It is so difficult when my body wants to, but my mind tells her “no, please don’t let me”.
    Although it is not a rule for us, I will eat my cum when she tells me to. Yes, it always sounds like a hot thing to do when I am all aroused, but as soon as I have cum it loses it’s appeal fast.
    I told her recently that I love when she makes me do things. Taking the strap-on, and I love the idea of being trained for forced pee drinking. I crave to be dominated by my wife in every way. That is my happy place.

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  3. I have taken my own cum. I do self-chastity and when I finally release and cum (after 1-2 weeks) it is explosive. One time I was in contact with a woman who wanted to supervise over internet chat, so I arranged the laptop so it was raised (so she was looking down at me) and released for her. I stroked and came at her command and came onto a plate. She had not given me any instructions, but I scraped the cum with a spatula into a small cocktail glass, and showed it to her, and asked her permission to drink a toast to her. She was VERY surprised, but allowed it.

    I have released and cum for other woman, and have even shot into a glass. But as you know, once a man cums he loses the desire to be kinky and submissive, so I have shot into a glass but not consumed it. (I certainly would have done if requested).

    Someday hopefully I will turn the key and control over to someone and the rules will be out of my hands.

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  4. I love that I am edged and denied. That feeling is much better that a few seconds of an orgasm. My wife allowed me a full blown orgasm on Saturday, the first one in 5 months. After, she said “well, I guess your going to be down for a few days”. I said “yes, don’t ever let that happen again”.

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  5. Dorinda, I prefer to be on the edge as long as possible. I am not in a FLR and my wife does allow me to edge myself everyday but I save my cum for when we are together. Being in my 60’s I do also find healthy benefits to semen retention, I do seem to have more energy by limiting ejaculation to once a week to as long as one month. I have read there are mineral/nutrients in male semen which are good for male health. My favorite sex stories are of mature married couples who belong to a club where wives sexually control husbands for their pleasure. If only such a thing exsisted. As I have gotten older I have more pleasure being on my knees liking my wife’s pussy and ass then screwing. That feeling of being a servant and pleasing is nice. I do have trouble licking my cum up but when those words as said “clean momie” my bell just rings. I enjoy your blog you hit topics of interest to me.

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    1. Hi John:
      Thank you for reading my blog and taking the time to respond to this post.
      In the last few years I have received hundreds of e-mails from older men that have your exact point of view. This is where I see so much of what appears to be in public is not so (relationship wise). Each of these men are serving their wife in some respects and love being on their knees serving her needs.
      Also you are far from being alone cleaning up your mess for her.
      D

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  6. What an interesting question!

    So, first, I do not particularly like being edged. I would rather cum quickly or within a shorter amount of time. However, the denial or the edging part is a big plus (even though not my preference in a way) because of the submission it implies. If forces me to be obedient and submissive and this is way more enjoyable and important than a short term ejaculation. So, I guess I have a contradictory opinion on this, but I hope I explained it well enough.

    One of your absolute key insights is the motivational aspects of cumming. I can fantasize about eating my own cum while jerking off either alone or under instruction, BUT once I cum, I find the idea either repulsive or, at best, uninteresting. I very seldom do it and when I do it is only because i was directly required to.

    On to your final request/order.

    Yes, I will do that. But I can’t seem to figure out your email….

    Could you give me the direction on where to find your email? I must be slow today!

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  7. Very interesting entry and thread. Men love their erections, they are proud of them and love it that they make their partners happy. In foreplay men arouse their mates but get aroused themselves the longer this arousal lasts the happier they are. My husband wet spot is kept in chastity which prevents his erection. He really wants a nice hard on, just to feel it , to see it, to have it. I will keep the boy busy with his head between my legs for a long time often I have 4 or 5 orgasms and the boy can’t even get hard but is dripping pre ejaculation fluid. I often hear him whimper or moan in frustration even pleading to be released from the bondage of his chastity. I do love a nice hard cock and talk about that to the boy. I just love to see his face when I talk about a hard cock that I have had some experience with.

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    1. Hi Janyne:
      Thanks again for taking a peek at my blog and leaving a comment.
      I also enjoy hubby between my legs as I have said many times with his desire to one up his last oral performance.
      But I also love a hard penis, i love everything about it. I have been considering a cockcage to try out for fun, but have not gone there yet.
      D

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  8. Like most of your commenters, I too prefer to be repeatedly edge and ultimately denied. I have been conditioned over the years to actually prefer the feeling of a constant state of arousal before, during and after sex with my Mistress … while she of course has the orgasm(s) that she wants, when and how she wants.

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    1. Hi Subhub:
      Thanks for the reply and reading my post.
      This post has created a lot of feedback.
      It was meant more for my and my readers information about submissive men and I believe it worked well.
      I think its funny, its more of a reward for us Women as we age as well, if you have a good relationship and endured time with your man you reap this benefit, the benefit that it is now about you, and he loves and very much wants you to be satisfied.
      The hustle and bustle of young life and kids made it more about sex, many time fast sex. Now its about long sex, and multiple times for me.
      D

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  9. It certainly helps to keep one in control and aroused continually with female controlled orgasms. In this way I am trained and more willing to serve for longer periods of time with interest. My wife likes to have me cum on her feet while she is watching tv or eating lunch and I would have to clean up of course. She’s mentioned our arrangement to her mother in the past and has me sometimes serve them both in only an apron as her mother doesn’t really believe the control she has . I haven’t had to lift up the apron to show her mother the chastity device yet or anything else, but she has indicated that I may be able to earn an earlier release if i’m willing to do more when her mother is around.

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    1. Hi Sam:
      Thank you for reading my blog and commenting on this topic.
      I like your wife’s style, I have also made my husband cum on my toes and clean them. Another place I have him cum and clean on is my nipples and breasts.
      It is very rewarding to show other woman (that you can trust) what power you have over your husband so I understand where your wife is coming from and look forward to hearing back you have shown your mother in law more of your servitude toward both of them.
      D

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      1. I showed my wife your site and your reply. She says she’s now definitely interested in proving to her mother her complete control over me in more a clear cut way, as she says. So far I’ve not done much outside of serving them drinks in just an apron, even as my wife has told her she has complete over me. My MIL thinks its ‘cute’ that I serve them this way and just laughs but I don’t think she quite understands the extent of control she has. My wife says she’s going to turn up the volume one of these days so that its more obvious as she really wants to show her mother that she’s in control.

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        1. Quite interesting Sam and quite unusual I think. Many women eventually share some aspect of their FLR with friends, far fewer with mothers. Buy that is quite nice I think for all involved!

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        2. Hi Sam:
          Well, I think it is actually wonderful that you will do things for your mother in law as sanctioned and agreed on by your wife. Like tom bow said it is rare, hearing about it anyway. As you know though, I do have my husband to certain services to a few other women too.
          I can see where other would think he or you would be being unfaithful. But for me he is doing it for me, he gets no release from it, only serving them at my demand.
          D

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  10. Dear Dorinda,
    Curious about whether you would share any of your collection of ordered pics here….now I am wondering about them, lol. With permission of course!

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    1. Hi Tom:
      Thank you for asking but anything shared with me is confidential. Actually most pictures I delete after viewing them because many show their face or another’s face.
      I have posted a few times on other’s request but I require their permission. I do not mind helping others if sharing their story or pictures helps out our cause.
      D

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  11. I think for my wife she wants to prove to her mother that she’s in charge and not the little girl she was as a kid. She wants her mother to see and understand that she’s the one that has her life in order and runs things as she wants and demands it. She’s not the one to be under anyone’s control, especially some man. I play the part because I enjoy it if it pleases her and it’s symbiotic for us of course. It’s not a question of being unfaithful because I can only do as she asks or allows others to ask of me. For this, I’ll have to be prepared for far more than regular service in an apron and going beyond ‘cute’ as to prove her point to her. She simply wants to show her who exercises the control and that her mother can be more independent as well. That’s my take on it anyway. I’ll know soon enough as to what it involves me having to do but I don’t get much advance notice of what will be expected only hints.

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    1. Hi Sam:
      It sounds like you are a good husband.
      My husband cooks for us and my friends all the time, they know he wonderful at it and they love that when they are over at our home a man takes care of them, cooks for them, cleans up after and serves desert, wine, etc while I entertain. He is clothed when he does these things however.
      The only time that he is not is when I have him do my dear friend or sisters feet and toes, then I have him wear woman’s panties, only for the purpose of reducing his maleness while submitting to them. mostly now they are sheer and the can see his sex.
      D

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        1. Ok Sam:
          When I made my husband openly serve me in front of others really was the starting point of my mind and sole understanding the true depth of my husbands desire to please me. A bright light comes on.
          You only live once, make Her as happy as you can.
          D

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      1. Thanks Dorinda, I wonder if anyone else here has had experience with their mother in law knowing that the husbands submit to their wives or have had to serve their wives in front of them. I’ve had my experience with my mother in law taken to a new level recently as she was brought over yesterday. I was told to be prepared to go beyond simply serving in an apron and to allow my wife to show and explain to her mother the extent of my willingness to servitude. It was…interesting, so I’m wondering if anyone else had to do something similar. How did your husband feel after the first time you brought in your sister to observe?

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        1. Hi Sam. That sounds very interesting. Can you share more details? How much does your MIL know now? I cannot imagine my MIL learning about Her daughter’s dominance. Some of my Wife’s closest girlfriends do know a little, I am almost certain, but I have no idea how much, my Wife wouldn’t tell me anything. Most of the time She even denies it, but there are indirect hints, and some fairly innocent acts of dominance (that probably could be interpreted in different ways) even took place in their presence…

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          1. Hi,

            My wife had prepared me to be open, not that there is a whole lot of choice as she’s open to tell anyone about it much as I would be. Except that for her it would be less humiliating thing to mention. In this case, as mentioned before, she wanted to show to her mother the power dynamic in the house hold. My MIL had already some ideas I would imagine as she’s already seen me in an apron and nothing underneath. I would be ordered to bring them drinks and not really speak. My wife would make comments about me being a good servant and that she liked me under her control. Things of that nature. My MIL would say, Well that’s good to have and tell me to pick up her glass or plate to bring back to the kitchen. So she’d give some orders already even then. She never made comments about me being naked under the apron except to sort of laugh when my wife would mention it to her. She never saw anything other than my back side. I couldn’t really get hard at this point as I’d have a device on anyway. She didn’t know about the device either as she wasn’t aware of much else.
            My wife was already pushing the boundaries by doing this and I think she wanted to explore her control even more. At the same time, she likes to show her mother that she’s wearing the pants so to speak. So when I was told that my MIL was going to come over tonight I was excited and nervous as to her reaction if she’d exert her power more so and what she’d be telling her.
            Anyhow, my MIL had come over and it initially started as much other days. I was dressed in regular clothes at this point. Other times I’d already be in an apron and greet her that way so nothing new here. I brought her over to the living room as per usual where my wife was already waiting with a drink in hand. As my mother in law was seated I was told to wait there; her pointing in front of them. Already it was taking a slightly more authoritative tone than before. Then she told me that she wants me to change into only an apron and to bring out a drink for her mom. Off I went to change (in another room) and came out and asked her what she’d like to have. My wife had started to explain to her a bit more details of the situation at this point. She was telling her that in general she doesn’t allow her servant to wear any regular clothes in the house and sometimes I’m told to have nothing on at all. Then they were both looking at me as she paused at this. My MIL didn’t make any comments other than, oh yes and what she wanted for drinks. She told her that I am in training to be a good servant to her or to anyone else in the house. My MIL’s comment was that this is what husbands were for and that my wife should relax some times and let me take care of things. Not for her to do all the work. My wife agreed and started to list out the many tasks that I do for her. At this point she told me to kneel to the side and await for any further instructions. This is more of a thing we’ve done just the two of us so obviously she’s opening up to a more personal experience. She explained that as part of the training I would wait on her like a puppy dog as I was. Basically she’s letting her know that she’s the one with the power in the house and that i’m controlled in all aspects of regular like. That I myself like it that way. She asked me if I believe that women should be in control and I answer yes of course. She asked her mom what she thought about that and she agreed.

            As this is getting long, and I don’t want to take up Dorinda’s blog real estate; If Dorinda allows me to continue and people are interested I can continue with the rest of the story.

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            1. Hi Sam:
              Thank you for continuing with your and your FLR Wife’s story.
              Why dont you put this together with the rest of what you have so far and e-mail me, I will publish it for you here on my blog.
              I really enjoy your writing and look forward to more details as I believe my followers will to.
              Enclose a picture that you dont mind being published with your story.
              D

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            2. Thank you for replying Sam and thank You Dorinda for the kind offer.
              It must be a very intense experience for you Sam. How does it make you feel to be exposed like this, only deeply submissive or also excited?

              I am not sure I could handle it if my Wife exposed me like this, not with Her mother anyway. If it happened out of the blue I would certainly obey my Wife, but I would feel deeply humiliated in front of Her mom and later I would try to talk Her out of doing it ever again. With Her girlfriends present, yes, anything She wants, but please not with my MIL.

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    1. Hi Tom:
      I know, but I am not a business, no ad’s, my blog is paid for by my husband (he does not know about it, but makes the money) and just want to communicate our life style to others with no shame, anger, or any negative consequence.
      I hope most feel like you so they can be honest and we can all be helpful to each other.
      D

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  12. Hi Dorinda
    I like to cum but I really like to be get horny. That’s part of the reason I cum so infrequently these days. My Queen loves how I am when I’m horny. She does like to see me cum though. And I am always asked to clean up afterwards. Like most, the excitement of cleaning up diminishes after orgasm, but I do what I’m told.

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  13. Dorinda,
    I like cummming but I love my wife being dominant over me. By giving her control of my orgasms I feel more controlled by her. Many times I want to cum in the moment but hope she doesn’t cave into my requests. I find it even more arousing for her to deny me when I really want it. Part of me also knows that once I cum everything changes and it’s like starting over.

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  14. As far as I am concerned, You are absolutely right Dorinda; I want to stay perpetually horny and ready to please. Short-lived extasy associated with my ejaculation pales in comparison to long-lasting conflicting feelings that result from merciless tease&denial torment. Not to mention that it takes time after my orgasm to fully recover my sexual abilities and I feel miserable until I can perform again or at least sport fully erect penis at every opportunity. That said, I still want to cum, my comfort zone now is about 1-2 times per week (when I was free to masturbate I ejaculated at least once a day). However, my Wife cut this down to only 1-2 orgasms per month and also severely restricted access to Her vagina for my dick. It is incredibly arousing and frustrating at the same time. And humbling. When I get to fuck Her it is for Her pleasure, my last orgasm from vaginal sex was months ago. I love/hate this, but I get a lot of satisfaction from bringing my Wife to orgasm in other ways.

    Cum eating: I will never get used to it, it is disgusting and humiliating, I cannot force myself to do it after orgasm, but I do it when ordered to. Luckily it is not often, my Wife doesn’t like it either. I have no problem eating a creampie directly from my Wife’s pussy, though, strange but true. I enjoy smelling and eating pussy anytime and that makes consuming my own cum somehow less repulsive.

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