A letter from my e-mail bag:
This is a great topic for us to comment on. As a new member of the FLR lifestyle, he asks a few questions.
Please consider when you started in your FLR/FemDom relationship, what would be your reply be and if interested post your thoughts.
I think many of us can learn together with some open dialog.
Below is his question was my response.
I’ve just entered a new relationship and my gf and I are thinking of incorporating some elements of a FLR-led life into our relationship –I’ve stopped masturbating and begun practicing semen retention. Our plan is to have her milk my prostate either with her fingers or with a strap-on (but no ejaculation) a couple times a week. We’ll still have sex regularly and I’ll service her orally –but I just can’t ejaculate unless she says so. Partially the theory is I’ll be harder (and stay harder) for longer as a result of adopting this routine (and the number of her orgasms will increase of course). Is there any advice you’d give to a couple starting this journey?
Thank you for your wisdom,
My answer, I was in the Dr’s office and commented from my phone, Sorry in advance for improper grammar, etc.
Thanks for the e-mail question.
Ok, so you are going to attempt a semi FLR relationship?
Semen retention is not my expertise but Femdom is. I think if you are new to this starting with prostate milking it is probably not going to last for very long. It is actually a lot of work to milk it. There is also a learning curve to it. It’s not easy to master the technic. Also it can and usually is messy unless you do an enema. All of which tells me it’s not a good starter task for new relationships. Also it makes all the work about and to you, the work should be you do everything for Her. I am not into cock cages because my husband is very obedient about wasting his load with masturbation but if you cannot be disciplined enough to keep you cum in you until She authorizes a release then a cock cage may be needed to lock you up.
A better starting point is to ask Her what She wants to receive from you. Cooking, cleaning, shopping, foot rubs, learning to give her a pedicure, making sure you learn how to provide her with orgasms when She needs them, not the way you want it but the way she needs it. It will take months to learn Her needs working together. Maybe She will enjoy you on your knees in front or her in your living room kissing Her feet while pleading how much you love and adore Her.
Let me know what you are going to do for Her, it cannot be about you anymore if you are serious.
Most people are not interested anymore after hubby sees FLR is not a temporary sex game, but a way of life.
Some pictures of service from my sub, you will need to understand its for the Woman, not your sex drive anymore.