It seems that a very common thread among men that claim they are submissive to a dominant Female is they really want to provide oral service to a Her pussy and/or anus. It seems mostly to Her anus..
In a nutshell this is what they want and I feel would expect if they were actually in a D/s relationship.
The problem here is they cannot expect anything; they are the sub in the relationship. They do what the D Wife tells them to do. On occasion you will provide Her oral service of Her choosing but seriously, this works out to not as much time as you think.
Also you do not get to cum unless She wants you to. Sometimes for very long lengths of time, this includes no masturbation for relief, again, unless She authorizes it.
I also NOW think most people that read my blog are men that only fantasize about being in a Femdom relationship. My last post I received over 50 comments I did not publish, most with some sort of desire for oral servitude to Her back door.
This is totally OK, it’s just that you have to earn your place in order to serve a Woman, it’s all about Her deciding, not about you reading a Femdom post and spanking your monkey.. Then you’re done.
This behavior does not work for a mature Woman. You need to earn your place with Her.
If you have a Woman now, start considering Her needs, learn how to please Her orally and then tell Her you only want Her to experience orgasm, you are fine with rubbing Her feet or legs after so She can relax. Tell Her you do not need an orgasm, its all about Her.
After you become an expert satisfying Her with no orgasm for yourself you will be surprised how much more oral sex She wants and needs from you. She will have no pressure, She can enjoy Her Power. She does not need to help you, sometimes that task is way to much work for Her.
You can help Her to become Dominant, you may need to help Her get that way, then when She is very comfortable She may allow you to service Her anus.
You need to ask Her. If She trusts that She is free from your need to orgasm, She generally will become much more receptive to your wanting to show Her how much you love Her and want Her to accept your services.. That you will do anything to make Her feel like a Woman.
Get off your ass and start doing other work She would do in your home. The idea is to continuously make Her life easier, The more you do for Her, maybe the more She will allow you access to orally service Her.
These ideas are actually facts. Many Woman need to be helped to accept they can be a Dominant wife or Girlfriend. It makes Her life remarkably better..
If you have a Woman, Help Her…. be Her man, Her needs always come first!
The art of being a good submissive husband is accepting you do not get to release even after you are ready to explode, your semen leaking out after you spent 45 minutes between Her legs then you massaged Her feet for another half hour, your role in Her life will change to do everything possible to make Her feel good and relieve any stressors She may have.
Its not easy to be a submissive husband, you basically give up the world view of a male. In a way you take on the role of the old school housewife, She can entertain, watch TV, text, rest, whatever while you do the household choirs. You stop by on occasion and tell Her how much you love Her, How beautiful She is, is their anything She needs?
Your sexual reward from time to time is a release. The good thing is you will have earned it and it probably will be a very wet one. Your balls will ache from the big spurts. Your main reward will be serving a true Woman, that She allows you so serve Her any way She desires with no complaints from you!
Anyway here is a picture of both holes my husband orally services for me..