I was looking at some Femdom Blogs recently and something very common is spanking and or caning your husband, in fact a commenter to a post I was reading said if the blog is not about this form of Domination then it’s not worth reading.
First off, to each his/Her own, whatever turns you on is fine by me.
I do not spank mine. It does not do anything for me. However, a lot of things I do to him do not turn me on. I do them so he gets turned on but then don’t act on it. I really get off on him wanting me. He is so predictable, his constant urge to cum, always trying to do more hoping I will allow him between my legs or at least allow him the opportunity to spend.
I was thinking though I have many times made him experience pain. I enjoy squeezing or hitting his balls to give him pain that way. (This must be a family trait because Beth seems to really enjoy doing this too) A lot of times I tie his balls up with an old nylon stocking for a while, while he does some other task, many times when he is doing my legs with lotion or working on my feet I do this before he gets started. I am mindful of his balls turning blue and cooling due to loss of blood flow, still he can handle it for upwards of an hour or two. I sometimes enjoy seeing him squirm when he serves me. Not always but sometimes.
I also have enjoyed while his balls are bound putting clothes pins on the tip of his erect penis. It seems to work out well with 3, two on the underside on each side of his pee hole and one on the top. This seems to spread open his pee hole in this configuration. Every now and again I will put a 4th, This one right on the tip closing that hole I just talked about. If I make him cum with the clothes pins on I take the one on the tip off just as he start to ejaculate.
Now with this he actually winces in pain, but, he also maintains an erection for me.
I do not do these things too often anymore because it’s too much work for me. Right? Why go thru the effort when he is horny enough just doing his routine tasks and chores for me. He always has a full load when I allow his release. That is my measuring stick to determine if I need to put in anymore effort. He is motivated enough I feel.
So I guess it comes down to this.
Do you guys enjoy being spanked?
And the question for the Doms, Have you been doing this to him for a long time, if so how often do you spank him?
This picture has nothing to do with this post, I figured its been a while sense I showed you my ass!