This post is really meant as a question to my followers. If you comment it will help not only me to formulate new post topics and answers, but you readers can get an idea of your peer’s behaviors and mind sets about submission to their wife.
The next few posts (if there is enough interest) will be about how I became a FemDom wife (from a vanilla wife), what did I have to do mentally and physically to become one. How did I change?
Also, what changes did my alpha male husband have to go thru mentally and physically to become a sub. He was a good husband before, but to be changed to a male house wife. And times a receptacle for my strap-on with no notice or my urinal any time or place I desire?
I have talked about in previous posts the day he asked me to “just tell him what to do” after a total work burnout. This simple statement completely changed our lives, and our roles in our marriage. This did not start over night. It took me some time to mentally digest the statement then put together a plan on the fly over a few months and started a re-education and training program with no experience in psychology or how the brain works. I hit the internet pretty hard and came up with some trial and error solutions.
I knew as a Woman that my pussy was a huge persuader to my husband and every other man I have ever known! I needed to learn to use it for power.
Also known by any Woman is their males need to orgasm, generally often, and if possible in their mouth or one of their holes, and if that’s not available then with their hands.
Then, considering his sexual desires, how could I use those to my advantage?
I had to change the way he thinks, also rearrange his mental and physical reward system. (re-educate)
For instance, I had to re-train him to willingly drink my pee (very often), to do unlimited oral to me (always), take a strap on (often), be horny most of the time with no relief, household duties, etc.. on and on! Happily!
This is the question for you.. Please respond
Do or did you need your Dom/wife to re-educate you or are you naturally a submissive?
If you are the Dom does your sub/husband just want to submit to you or did you have to re-train him?
Thank you for you participation..