We have been talking over the last few weeks about this Dom/s thing my husband and I have. As you know I have been talking at length to her about how it works for us. I have also explained how I believe the males mind works; how you can intentionally provoke sexual desire and sexual energy from him and use it against him to benefit Herself.
The keys to the kingdom I call it. Once you understand you have the keys, you can unlock any lock or obstacle he produces or that you want to control.
I have to laugh at Her though, what She tells me has been pretty funny. She is actually on a mission to start a 24/7 FemDom relationship. She understands completely that first She must find a suitable male of her liking. For Her he must be a rugged type guy, smart, funny, make good money to support Her, not a push over but willing to be led fully by Her.
Obviously she wants a man with similar characteristics to my husband. I think because frankly, she had the opportunity to have him before I did, and she regrets it deeply, and actually why not, I could not agree with her more, in this case.
Anyway, in the last few months She has dated two separate guys.
Some of my friends here have suggested She go to FetLife to list a personal ad.
She is not ready for that, She is actually afraid of that, a stigma that those people would be weird or something.
She is looking for the whole package of a good sub like my husband and some of you, my friends I follow here. But Her, being Her, has tried a few dates with each, then attempted to put them to work on Her sexually. Well they both failed of course. Plus they both were not thinking about this kind of relationship. They both indicated they sort of were but did not put their hearts into it. Men will tell you anything to get their dicks in you!!!
I know this is from me, Her Sister, what I have told Her I love most about my husband’s services he performs for me, She wants and thinks this is what he must do for Her.
I think we can agree that when She finds mister right, She will need to train him, like I did for what She enjoys, not what I enjoy.
The things She says She must have are, he must be able to consume her pee from Her directly and all of it, She says very often too. I know we disagree here on WordPress but it is very powerful to force your Husband to drink and gulp your cum (pee) , the only thing as stimulating for me is using my strap-on on Him.
He must be able to use his tongue for an hour on her. Why? Because I have told her many times mine can do much longer than an hour and also push his tongue in very deep in both holes so I can ride many orgasms while he is down there.
He must cleanup all of his Cum after making love to you until you are ready for him to release, no earlys..
Wow I say what a checklist for your prospective sub the first time between your legs.
She is back asking me to let my husband loose on Her showing Her how it can work with my supervision as training. She is dying to have him drink an extra full bladder, I think She would seriously orgasm before She was finished.
I don’t think so, but I am still trying to help. She said only one would consider her pee and when She tried it went everywhere, I have a method that is fool proof, he will not spill a drop, I am going to work with Her on that this weekend when She comes over.
The other one did nether good oral or consider her pee but said he could last very long in her and promised to clean up his semen from her when he finished after She gave him the OK to cum, he orgasm-ed in less than a minute. Then he had no desire to clean Her of his mess.