As I have mentioned several times in my past posts I started my blog to connect other Women and myself and spread the message about the vast benefits in Femdom marriages and FLR relationships.
It seems that it is mostly men that have followed me, but not to many Women.
I have been receiving a lot of email from both men and Women but mostly Women.
Interesting to me but none of it matters, I am just sayin. Thank you all for what ever way we connect!
My post today is aimed more to you men who are following my blog. Many of you have emailed with questions about how you can make your Wife do this or that in your relationship. The biggest topic lately is about pee play or forced pee drinking.
Regarding pee play or any topic associated with your Femdom relationship. Please understand your Woman makes all the decisions, She chooses what She wants and when. All you do as Her submissive is do it. You should have no input. Remember you probably asked Her to be your Dom.
It seems to me if you want it done to you and you continue to ask her for it you are trying to Dominate or control Her. Trying to control anything is not what subs do.
When my husband asked me to dominate him I thought about it, I did some research about it, and then I wanted him to be sure this was really what he wanted. I explained to him things were going to be a lot different; he said he understood and really did want me to lead and Dominate him.
Since that day he has not requested I do anything, he always asks permission to do things for me. Things he believes will somehow be helpful for me.
As my sub, in no way can he request ANY sexual services, that would be unheard of and completely off limits. He knows better, he is a very disciplined sub, remember he is an alpha male. I think men like this are naturally disciplined.
He does for me immediately without hesitation anything I demand. Maybe I am just lucky but he knows his place in my life, he does not want to jeopardize it.
The pee thing I thought of, I felt a true sign of submission, he did not ask for it or want it, I forced him to take it, and take it he does, very often and he had to be taught to accept it. I have talked about it in several previous blogs.
Please continue to email, I really enjoy it a lot, its best though if your questions pertain to how you can service her better, things you can do for her, but not what She can do for you.
Also I would like to know how you serve Her? How do you please Her?
Be sure you get Her permission to communicate with me, remember you are Hers, She makes the decisions for you!