I am not sure what happened but for over two weeks now I have been receiving many more emails with questions about my life style with some from other countries. I wonder if my blog now shows up on google. Well however it happened it is the reason I started blogging, to talk to other Women about it!

I think I went overboard on the sex part and pictures of him servicing my needs in the beginning of my blog, around 50 posts, today I want to talk a bit more about the basics of a FLR or a Femdom Wife as I see them.

I have posted several other stories on my blog about this topic so forgive me if this seems to be a duplicate

I have become aware the term Femdom is used very broadly. My specific area is pretty limited compared to what I read on friend’s blogs I have met here on WordPress. I feel I need to state a few facts to help understand my area of Femdom and what I want you to know about it.

These are my desires and Femdom life; I am in no way saying anything against or disagreeing with any bloggers I follow and their ways and lifestyles in Dom/s or BDSM.

What works for you is now your reality, ours changes with time. For instance, after a few years as his Dom I started using a strapon in him. In the beginning I never thought about it or even considered buying one. It was a natural progression. Now I milk him with it every once in a while. The point is the lifestyle grows on you!

First things are; I do not, spank him, whip him, chain or bind him, cage his cock, feminize him, (except to have him wear women’s panties every so often) cuckold him, have other men, have any other subs. I am not part of any group about this life style. I am not a feminist, I do not hate men, I do not think men are stupid; I am not a victim in any way shape or form.

Now, what I am; a mother of 5 children, a grandmother, a wife, a retired professional, a normal Woman in most aspects, I am not the most beautiful woman; I have put on some pounds over the years, I think if you met me you would have No idea I am a Dominant Woman. To sum it up I am just like most of you married Women!

Femdom for me today is not about sex only it is about having my husband do most of the household work, provide financial and emotional support to the household, take care of my personal needs when I tell him to, (sometimes I want to do my own), Sexually satisfy me in any way I want or feel like at any time. Also, I think it is important to mention as a Woman, I still need to have him make mad passionate love to me, kiss me deeply, caress my body, be romantic, be funny, (this does still happen, he is just much better at it now)

I use his male sex drive to obtain all of the above and much more. I control it, he knows it, he likes it, its like a quid pro quo system. This for that..

My tools are my brain, boobs, pussy, anus, legs and feet.

In my opinion these are what men lust after. My husband is human and no different. He lusts after these too.

I also have and use a large strap-on, a medium and a large butt plug and 4 different model vibrators. 3 are very high quality made by mona. That’s it!

His tools are his mind, cock, balls and anus. Simple

These above two lines are our toolbox to our happy marriage. Our life is complicated just like yours; this life style has helped me and our family to be very secure, safe, loving and caring. This has also made my life much more easy and bearable since he has taken so many of the so called Woman’s Work duties from me.

It takes some training for sure, but you can do it. Please email me if you want to talk about it.

D.

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My husband taking care of me, part of our Femdom

 

 

5 thoughts on “Dorinda’s Femdom Lifestyle 101

    1. Thank you Michael for your thoughts and for replying:
      That is exactly what I was trying to say in the beginning of my post. The whole point was this works for the two of us. I want other Women that want to better themselves to know there are many paths to success
      D

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  1. Hi Dorinda,
    I love your blog and the type of FLR that you and your husband have created, exactly because it is based on love, trust and respect for each other.
    As a submissive man with a strong personality and significant day-to-day responsibilities, I have always found hard to accept and then express my strong willingness to serve a woman – which also fuels my sexuality as in the case of your husband. My impression is that society is not ready for these unconventional relationships also because there is a lot of dark femdom porn on the internet.
    What do you think?
    Very best,
    A.

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    1. Hi Andrea, thanks for reading my blog:
      I agree with you that society as a whole is not ready for as you put it “unconventional relationships”
      I am not sure however that it is because of the content on the internet. I feel most people don’t search for porn, if they do their search terms are clearly looking for this type of content. Take me for example; I only started searching for it when my husband asked me to Dominate him. I never really gave the lifestyle any thought before that.
      I think if everyday women understood more about the lifestyle they could become more happy and content in their life. Keep in mind that most men do not want to be dominated so this Femdom is not for everyone. It’s not for all women ether.
      I accept for myself and our family we are in the minority but it works for us and we are very happy and content with it. I have met some very sincere and wonderful people here with similar blogs. It has very much opened my eyes to the lifestyle.
      BTW, my husband does not know anything about me blogging. I am sure he looks at porn in general though.
      D.

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  2. Awesome! I have become proficient at doing mains / pedis . Start with a fragrance tub hot water as Mistress soaks her feet. Do cuticles, oil, massage feet and calves also sometimes a sanding with stone or the pedi grinder thing.

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