Another day starts in my Femdom FLR life.
I have been reading blogs again here on wordpress, Well I should say I have been using the crappy search tool trying to find other Femdom or FLR sites I have not seen yet. I found one more, it is new, there is only one post so far. I do hope they continue it.
I think FLR and Femdom are different. I am more Femdom because I use my husbands sexual desire to benefit my self and my family. I am at the controls of a complicated machine, so to speak. Sex is almost always in the motivation on both sides
FLR you are like a boss to your husband, you may control his sex but your mindset is generally that you are more qualified to make all decisions regarding your life together. There may or may not be sex involved.
I have some followers that are new to the lifestyle like I was in the beginning, commenting and questioning just trying to find their way. Very open and honest questions.
I am so glad they stumbled across my blog. I love my circle of friends here, I hope they stay on and join us.
In the beginning when sub asked me to change roles I started looking at what this was about. I see now that when I searched for Femdom mostly what I found was information on Feminizing males, BDSM or professional Dominatrix Women.
Not anything about 24/7 marriage with the Wife controlling everything in her household with a man she loves and respects.
Several of the comments I receive are from people looking for one of the topics I found above, but not really about 24/7 Femdom.
For instance, my relationship with my husband is not only about the act of sex, it is about the day in day out life of a household. Most women know all that is involved here, I don’t think most men do. I think most households, the woman does most of the tasks while the husband may sit around like a superior feeling it is Her work. Really? Yes unfortunately a true statement.
In my Femdom/FLR I see now I am a hybrid both disciplines are melded together.
One thing I was thinking about is when I am home I throw on sweats or old pajama bottoms, a baggy shirt and sweatshirt. Hardy anything sexy, I do not own any stilettos, latex, whips, etc. Well I do own a strap-on. Anyway the point is I Dominate my husband in plain clothes, no special attire. When our sexual sessions happen, he is pleasing me, I am not working on arousing him or entertaining him, it is about me being satisfied, the byproduct of course is he is being satisfied by satisfying me.