One of my blog readers asked some questions about Femdom relationships. In our exchanges in the end he felt I was saying he needs to be more selfless and she needs to be more selfish.
My Femdom relationship has nothing to do with me being selfish.
Its about respecting each other’s needs, when I order him to do anything it’s because I am giving him what he needs and wants. It has nothing to do with me being to lazy or to good to do the task.
My husband needs and wants my guidance. For instance, today there are many people over because we are the place the family comes to, our kids and grandkids both. I was in the living room talking and told him to make me a chicken Quesadilla.
He got up immediately and prepaired it for me. Yes, on the stove, yes with freshly grated cheese and fresh chicken. He brought it to me on a real plate, not a paper one, and he also brought me a glass of squirt. So what you ask? We look at each other and have unspoken communication, we have to with so many people here. He knew I meant it in a Femdom wife way. His prospective was, my Dom wants food, I want to please her so I will make it delicious for her and serve it on a nice dish, all the while his cock is hard because I am his life, his love, his everything.
Every time I have him do anything he gets aroused.
This may be a bad example because he is a much better cook than me anyway.
This morning we took our grandson out on our walk, he pushed the stroller the whole way for me. No sex today yet, he just does what I ask him. He did tell me many times on our walk He loves me, he is so lucky to be my husband, I look so very thin and Beautiful. Guess what I’m not thin any more, but those are the things he see’s in me.
Here is the deal. He is a male, I am a Female, several years ago his training was started to worship me and all Females. It is like the donkey with a carrot on a stick he is always trying to move forward and get. In our case he was trained to do many things, each the reward was him being excited and horny and being able to kiss my feet, or smell my pussy, if he was very good I let him lick me for a while. After a while he learned to equate my requests with an erection. When a man gets an erection you can control him because he wants to use it and he wants to orgasm sometime.
So it is about me giving him what he needs, it is pretty amazing that a male can have an erection just from a request. Then keep it for a few hours. When he does finally get to release he has a large load, I really love a large load..