I think I would really enjoy having my husband do submissive things at length to me while some girlfriends are over. If you have been following me you know my Sister wants to watch and participate for her self-interest and training, training to be a Dom so from the onset of a new relationship she is in charge.
I feel rejuvenated and want to take our relationship to the next level. He has always been ok with doing so; it has been all me I think. I was not ready until now. I think a lot of my thoughts have come from a girlfriend I met that is not a Dom female but a normal wife that has helped me to see things I have not thought of before. In fact if she were here I would have had her over and used him in front of her.
For me it is strictly a mental stroke, that I can and do control this alpha male of mine and the superior position it puts me in over him to do so.
If vanilla Wife’s only knew, how to put them in this position, there lives would be so much better. In my case my husband was already a great catch and was always kind and considerate, handsome, smart, strong, a good provider, great father, but now I have it all, it is actually unbelievable to have a submissive man under my control! You should try it!
I am almost always wet now while ordering him to do all kinds of things, the normal things he gets hard about, I know how he thinks, how certain stimulation in his brain translates to a hard penis. The kind of stimulation is anything remotely sexual and anything I tell him to do, anything! A husband with a hard penis, that he knows from his heart, only I control, is sublime, any need or want I have the solution is supplied by him.
In the beginning I readjusted his thinking thru training to get him this way. As I have said in previous posts, once he understands you are fully in control of his semen release you own him. It is a win/win for both of us. The loads he releases are huge now, always. Now granted, he always has to clean up all of his semen mess one way or another; maybe huge loads are not good for him. LOL
So anyway, I want to take it a step further than with my sister a few months ago Still my Secret when I had him remove my shoes and a quick lick and kiss to my toes with her in the room. I want to have a friend observe a full foot worship ritual, even him giving me a pedicure. I want to show another woman my husband sucking my toes and feet like he is sucking a big cock, licking the full length of both of my feet and sucking each toe, then all of my toes with the enthusiasm he always has in doing so.
This will be a good start!