This simple statement says it all about a very basic Femdom relationship.

If I did not see it with my own eyes, even very macho strong alpha men want a woman in control. Take for instance my husband, he is under my control and he loves it. I don’t think he would be happy without it and me. He has not been feminized to anywhere near this extent but I do make him wear woman’s panties from time to time when he goes to work.
Control is very powerful for a Woman over a man. It changes everything in a woman’s life. It even changes things like confidence in your relationship, confidence in everything else. You know he’s not going to leave you; you become an addiction to him, he wants to serve you  more, more, more.
Now to make some others mad, it is about sex. His sexual desires, this is what and how it started for me. The trick is to control his sex but keep him interested. It’s not about letting him release, it’s about you making him feel the need but knowing he cannot until you allow it. This can be days or weeks. It is a delicate balance. In a way you truly are leading him along by his penis, men seem to think nonstop about this thing getting pleasured.
A simplified explanation is you get him aroused but keep him there off and on day in and day out. If your interest is to feminize him you got it, to be an excellent lover and your orgasm provider you got it, financially secure you got it, house cleaner, etc. and so many other benefits.

D

Wife in Control
An internet photo, one of a very few that are not Me and my sub.

 

4 thoughts on “A reply I Posted on an other Femdom Blog

  1. I am really starting to understand with your explanations, D. This makes sense and with what I did for Paul’s fantasy recently, I am starting to learn that I have some pleasure in this within myself. My goodness, that pic is so sexy! I can’t help but imagine that is really you being pleasured!!!

    XOXO
    Mel

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you Mel for the reply:
      Its not me but he is very used to this position, it is hard to capture a photo like this of us, but maybe I will figure out a way on a timer and post it in a future blog post. I love to be fully open with all my womanhood exposed to him and have his nose and mouth all over everything down there. I have him trained now where there really is no time limit, it is incredible.
      D

      Like

      1. This is a favorite position of mine, too. When Paul and I 69, I can feel his nose penetrating me and the feeling is incredible! We were talking about intimacy a few nights ago and we both came to the realization that the majority of the time that we spend making love is consumed with Paul’s mouth on my pussy…where it belongs! As much as I enjoy his cock inside of me, I love his tongue and lips on me even more!

        LOL – the steps that you are thinking about in order to provide your followers with authentically sexy images is hot!

        XOXO
        Mel

        Like

  2. It is about sex! 🙂 This was my revelation when I offered myself to my wife. She enjoys sex but it is not on her mind like it is on mine. We have sex daily and I felt I need to give to her for her interest in me. She is now becoming more comfortable controlling more of what I do and she recently told me I am more pliable if I haven’t cum in a while. (Something I haven’t noticed).
    When she has my stiff cock in her hand and her mouth at my ear I just melt and would do anything for her.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s