This is a continuation of two previous stories
My sister has so many questions about Femdom; honestly I don’t believe she ever really thought about the term before this.
We talked for a few days about it and how it has changed my life and actually our children’s life’s as well. She still has questions and wonders if this could help her in her seemingly life long quest to have an actual partner in a long term relationship or preferably a Marriage.
I have told her a lot about how this all started for me, and what it was like before, all the positives and really no negative’s in the changes but she was right in saying before I took over my role as his Dom I had the perfect husband and provider as it was.
Yes she was right, but I believe he just had all the good qualities most Women want and need in their Man. I have just manipulated his basic instincts and desires with much thought to redirect them in a way that he could be taught and reconditioned to respond to stimulation with desire to always please me.
His male needs and desires are met with me rewarding him when I feel like it, or not, but him never demanding anything.
She without a doubt wants what I have in my man and our relationship! She asked me for help!
Please read all my previous blog posts, you will see how my husband was reconditioned and how, what, and why he does what he does for me.
Having said all the above our dilemma is to figure out and help her to find a possible long term mate but from the very beginning determine if he has the right traits to be dominated. We need to build a road-map on how to proceed with the first tests, also how to have her be in the position to actively seek out only strong, financially secure, submissive men.
First she needs to change her belief system and retrain her own mental capacity to have the confidence to control him, including all financial matters, household duties, sexual duties, her personal required duties, (pee drinking, massages, cleaning, cooking, shopping, pedicures, baths, etc.)
This is where we are at right now. I am helping her by talking about these things at length.
She wants to come over to our home and watch me dominate him again in person now that she knows he is my sub. Not just a quick kiss or suck on a few toes but a long session where he licks, kisses, and sucks both of my feet and toes or more (she wants to see me piss down his throat, she just cannot believe he is such a great piss slave.) She even said “well since you are in complete control over him why not make him do my feet in the same way too, that way I can learn how to do it for real”
I am not sure about any of this yet I must say. I need to really think about this considering this would mean I would need to share my husband.
This is totally messing me up because a while back I wanted to taste another woman’s womanhood, every inch of her awesomely beautiful body and do for her what my husband does for me. It just did not work out because she was too far away..
So now here I am concerned about him kissing her feet? Yes, sometimes I do not understand my self!
I told her to start doing some research online; this will help her see what some Men want and how Femdom Women handle it.
I also made sure she understands I am not at all a hardcore Femdom wife, if one at all. Some of the blogs I follow the husband is locked up most of the time and does not have sex with his wife, she has it with others. There are many definitions she needs to be aware of and find one that fits her needs.
There is a lot of responsibility in Dominating your man, I told her She cannot take the responsibly lightly.
I will post more about my Sister soon.