It was quite some time ago that my husband started mentioning during our love making that he wanted to clean up his semen from my pussy after we were thru. It was an odd request, very odd coming from him. At first I did not answer I just heard what he said. After he flooded me with his thick white slippery mess he forgot about his request anyway.
This was several years before he had another request, this request was that he wanted to serve me as a submissive with me in total and complete control. As this request was discussed over a few weeks, it became very clear, he also wanted me to be in total control of his sex and sex life.
This shift was a process as described in many of my blog posts, if you are interested please view them.
I started looking in to what a submissive does for his Dominant Wife regrading sex. I had never been the leader and demander in our relationship so It took quite some research. Anyway, so many references discussed that you as his master must control his ejaculation’s. Also several other hard core beliefs required him to clean up his mess or even another mans or several other men’s messes.
By now I had the general idea, I needed to plan what I wanted in my new sex life, how I could kind of do a 180 role reversal for both of us. I feel in a non femdom marriage the woman does what she can to please her husband, yes she may get some or even a lot of attention during his time of need to cum. It could be a dinner date or even a movie or massage, maybe a few orgasm’s but then its about doing what he wants until he spurts his thick white cream in you or on you. Then he is done!! Good night or bye he had to go somewhere, or engrossed in some stupid sports show, or anything but continue to finish your needs that needed to be met.
Our new sex life became all about me, always. First he had to fully comprehend his new role which he seemed to be very eager to do. By the way 4 years later he is even more happy to be in this roll as my submissive.
The very first thing I had to do was re-educate his thinking about his semen. He had to re-learn that any time he releases it he must clean it up.
We started a training session for the first week that he would do some kind of service for me, things like licking my womanhood or asshole, kiss my feet, suck my toes, to get him hard. Always reminding him he is my sub, I am in charge. I started him on hand jobs, but when he came he had to be serving ones of those needs I just mentioned. He would spend into my hand, I would try to catch this huge load. Then I had him open his mouth, I had to be very very firm with him and would pour his semen in his open mouth so he would have to swallow a large amount then he would lick my fingers clean.
This was done to re-educate or re-program his male mind. He had to learn the only time he could be excited and or cum was doing some kind of personal sexual service to my Body. I also used my soiled panties on his face and had him smell my female scent while coming too.
Anyway next was service me or at least his mouth and nose needed to be in my pussy, I had him put on a rubber and jack off or use a vibrator on his cock so when he spent his seed it was all collected in this rubber drinking vessel. After he was thru I waited no more then 2 minuets and I would carefully remove it and have him lay on his back while I poured his semen directly into his mouth, keep in mind some of these loads had several table spoons of his semen, he was still not fully retrained as he is today but he would take down his load and always had to thank me me for it.
Next was his own handjob squirting onto his other hand then licking it up. He had to be taught to clean his own mess. This phase of training went real well. He started to be OK with it finally.
This took two or three weeks, maybe a month, this is not a fast process. During this time his cock was not allowed inside my womanhood. The instructions he heard were very clear, their will never be the inside of my pussy again until he could eagerly go down with no prompt and clean his mess, a benefit is this is when my pussy is very sensitive so it is almost always another series of orgasm’s for me.
We graduated into where he could make love to me and as I expected, his desires to satisfy me include his always cleaning up his mess.
Its an everyday thing now and no big deal. The gain is you have a very devoted husband now!